My latest (and last, btw!) column in the print Christian Science Monitor, which was belatedly posted on their website last week. Let me know what you think–especially if you are an Asian American who is the child of immigrant parents or if you are otherwise in a family still grappling with the cultural differences between Asia and America. My own take on it was (L)inspired by my 13-year-old, bball-playing son Johnny’s new-found (half-)”Asian pride”–as he himself labeled it. The CSM editor had to revise the opening sentence between the print and online versions, to account for Lin’s season-ending injury. Here’s that latest version, reprinted in full:
It says something about the improbable season of Jeremy Lin that in two months he has gone from bench warmer to injured NBA star whose injury and six-week absence might keep the New York Knicks from making the playoffs.
Then again, everything about Lin has been improbable since he stepped onto a basketball court Feb. 4 and led the woeful and depleted Knicks to the first game of a seven-game winning streak. An Asian-American Harvard graduate – with a degree in economics to boot – was suddenly outscoring NBA stars. Commentators quickly dubbed it “Linsanity” – noting how odd it seemed that an Asian-American was the hottest thing in pro sports.
As an Asian-American, I have another word for his rocket-fueled season: inspirational. The bucking of the Asian-American stereotype is likely to have a positive effect, not only on the attitudes of non-Asians toward Asians but also on the aspirations of Asian-Americans themselves.
Many ethnic groups are stuck with worse stereotypes in America, but even the generally positive bias surrounding Asians can operate as a straitjacket. Asian-American kids are expected to be good at academics, especially math and science, and to excel at rote assignments, carrying them out obediently, politely, and responsibly. People believe we excel in our quantitative precision more than through any creativity or social skills – certainly not by dribbling a basketball!
These messages don’t come just from American society. They often come from our parents, especially immigrant parents. They raise us to be very motivated in school and steer us away from social, athletic, or most artistic pursuits because such activities are typically viewed as detracting from, rather than complementary to, the main goal of academic excellence.
It’s understandable why Asian immigrant parents (and immigrant parents generally) might raise their born-in-America kids that way. It’s a safe way to help one’s children integrate into and succeed within American society, since these precisely defined goals in academic subjects are less culturally and socially dependent. Someone who can solve math problems in Asia can solve them in America, too.
My own parents (my dad from South Korea, my Chinese mom from the Philippines, and both PhD chemists) raised me that way, and, like many Asian parents who hold their kids to very high standards, they meant well. But I would have never become an economist were it not for the distributional requirements in college that required me to take at least some social science classes – those subjects my parents somewhat disparagingly labeled “soft” (not “hard”) sciences.
No matter what one’s cultural background, branching out beyond our stereotypes and “comfort zones” can be good for us. As The New York Times’s David Brooks has explained in his book “The Social Animal,” developing our “human capital” as fully as possible depends on nurturing qualities that go far beyond our ability to score high on standardized tests.
Children are more likely to grow up to be successful adults the more opportunities they have to try different things – even things that parents might not expect their kids to be that good at. I tell my own children that if they do what they truly love, the money will follow – simply because loving what you do is the best way to do it really well.
Yes, Asian-American parents might have a harder time than other parents in “thinking outside the box” and allowing, and even encouraging, their kids to expand their horizons beyond the math-and-science-type academics. But that’s why Lin’s breakthrough is more than just “Linsanity.” His success – in the NBA of all places – is potentially a game changer for Asian-Americans.